My dad taught me how to toast campfire marshmallows when I was young. But no matter how hard I tried to follow his instructions, I always burnt them. All my cousins got to enjoy their smores and to the corner, I had a growing pile of coal like I was on some naughty list. I followed the same recipe every year, only to end up eating char again and again, I thought I should pretend I burnt it on purpose, and so I did, my smouldering secret. It’s better than admitting I still don’t know or that I am just